Look at it this way Diann. If you were a dancer, and you wanted to become a popular dancer, you'd want to be nice to people, be friendly, and dance well. The more people you talk to, the more people like you, and the more popular you become. You make friends with other dancers, and join up and form dancing troups, and people see you and spread the word further.
It's more than just ass kissing, it's interacting. A smile here, a wink there.
It's my goddamn job to make sure you do your goddamn job.